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Americans, surveys show, are increasingly disconnected and lonely. Perhaps it shouldn’t come as a shock, then, that so many people are turning to AI chatbots for companionship. But the numbers are still startling.
Last year, a survey from Common Sense Media found 72 percent of teens have used an AI companion at least once. Half are regular users. And it’s not just kids. A 2025 Harvard Business Review article reported that “therapy/companionship” was the most common use for AI. One in five Americans have interacted with AI specifically designed to simulate a romantic partner.
These numbers seem only likely to grow as the tech industry smells a lucrative business opportunity. Meta boss Mark Zuckerberg has already floated AI companions as a solution to American loneliness.
But before the frenzy for AI friends and lovers reaches a fever pitch, it’s important to pause and ask: Do AI comparisons solve the problem people turn to them for? Does talking to a chatbot actually make you less lonely? According to new research, the answer is a pretty clear no.
AI chatbots versus the loneliness epidemic
The study, recently published in Psychological Science, examined data on AI chatbot use and loneliness for more than 2,000 people in English-speaking countries over a 12-month period. The researchers also tracked major life events, like a breakup or relocation, to make sure they didn’t impact the results. The team wanted to know: Was AI chatbot use at the start of the study linked to less loneliness at its conclusion?
As expected, the team found that people who reported being lonely were also more likely to turn to chatbots for companionship. However, after people ramped up their interactions with AI, they tended to feel more isolated and less socially connected.
“Taken together, these findings provide initial evidence that being lonely may spur people to seek companionship through chatbots but that such use may, over time, exacerbate feelings of loneliness,” the authors commented.
AI chatbots versus texting a stranger
They also caution, however, that these are early results and should not be seen as definitive evidence of anything. This particular paper may not be the final word on the subject. But it’s not the first study to suggest that chatbots are a pretty ineffective way to fight loneliness.
Earlier research, also out of the University of British Columbia, tested the effectiveness of AI companions on a famously socially-unmoored group–college freshman. That study was designed as a head-to-head matchup. What would be more effective at helping newcomers to college life find their feet, texting with another incoming freshman or chatting with a bot?
It “found that first-semester college students who texted a randomly selected fellow first-semester college student every day for two weeks experienced around a nine percent reduction in feelings of loneliness. The same two weeks of daily messaging with a Discord chatbot reduced loneliness by around two percent, which turned out to be the same amount as daily one-sentence journaling,” reports 404 Media.
The fatal flaw of AI companions
Chatbots may be always available and endlessly cheerful. So why did they only perform as well as a sentence-a-day journaling habit? Lead author Ruo-Ning Li speculates that it’s because they lack an essential component of human interaction–reciprocity.
“When you’re talking with a chatbot, you can get a lot from it, but you never have the chance to give something back,” Li explained. “Human connection has this back and forth–receiving and giving support–that makes us feel we matter. That may be the missing ingredient with AI companions.”
She’s not the first to warn of this issue with AI companions. Star psychologist Adam Grant has made the same observation.
“As human beings, one of our fundamental motives is to matter. Mattering is not just about feeling valued by others–it’s also about feeling that we add value to others. We need to know that our actions make a difference,” Grant wrote in his newsletter. “By definition, friendship is mutual. AI chatbots aren’t companions–they’re servants. Meaningful relationships involve being of service.”
Better ways to beat loneliness
All of which suggests there is a fatal flaw at the heart of the project to help ease people’s loneliness with chatbot companions. AI will never need us. And what humans really need to feel connected is to be needed by others.
Which also suggests better ways to go about fighting loneliness. A fancy psychology degree is not required to see that the best solution is just hanging out with people more. (Experts have plenty of advice on how to manage that, despite the atomising tendencies of modern life.) But sometimes, when connections have withered, that’s harder than it seems.
If so, your best bet is probably reaching out to an old friend, even someone you haven’t talked to in a long time. Some of the least surprising research of all time has found that these sorts of lapsed connections will likely be far happier to hear from you than you expect. And doing so will make you less lonely and depressed.
If you’re in dire straits and need a technological stand-in for a living, breathing human, AI is clearly not your best bet. Try a book instead. Unlike ever-cheerful chatbots, old fashioned books have been shown to reduce loneliness by helping us feel connected to and understood by other human minds. – Inc./TNS
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